Creating
good eating habits for your child is one of the most important jobs you have as
a parent. Like most things that children learn they are going to accept and
learn what you demonstrate to them far more than they will what you tell them.
And eating habits, like most good habits must be formed early in order to have
the most impact.
Here are
just a few things by Helene Goldnadel
that every parent ought to know to help
their child cultivate good eating habits to prevent a lifetime of frustration
and discouragement that comes with becoming overweight.
- As soon as
your child starts eating solid food keep them away from sweets. A child who
grows up without candy, soda pop and dessert will never miss it as they grow
older. Most people who have a sweet tooth developed it very young.
- When you
serve your child food, don't serve them more food than about the size of their
fist. This will usually fill them up. If they are hungry and ask for more, make
it a smaller portion.
- Never force
a child to finish what is on their plate and if you're trying them on a new
food start out with very small portions and allow them to decide if they like
it or not.
- Never use
food as a reward for good behavior and never withhold food for discipline. Take
food out of the equation as a bargaining chip with your child.
- Encourage
your child to eat foods that you know are healthier and less fattening. Talk up
how good salads, vegetables and lean meats are and have them experiment tasting
these foods with you.
- Don't force
your child to eat on a rigid schedule. They know if they are hungry or not and
forcing them to eat when they're not disables their ability to eat when they
need to, not when they think they should.
- Have your
child eat at the kitchen table, not in front of the TV where he will develop
mindless eating habits.
- Discourage
snacking between meals and never use food as a pacifier for your child in the
car or at home.
- Finally,
encourage your child to develop good eating habits by following those habits
yourself. Kids never buy into the "do as I say, not as I do
argument."
If you are
able to instill good eating habits in a child early, you will have given them a
gift that is priceless. They won't have to fight the diet demon and they will
have a far better chance of getting the gift of good health.
If you
don't change your habits, your habits will ensure that you never change.
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